Daddy An Li Featured

My name is An Li, but you can call me Daddy.

I have been a ProDomme in Los Angeles since 2013 and identify most strongly as a sadist and a bondage top with control freak tendencies. I pride myself on my technical talent, my attention to detail, and my particularly incisive verbal commentary. Coupled with a laid back attitude, I have been often described as “unexpectedly nice and scary”, which neatly sums up my day-to-day persona. That, and I’m just plain nasty (in a good way, of course).

The specialties I am well-known for include:
+ Ballbusting and CBT – perhaps my first Femdom love! I’ve been kicking boys since I was on the playground. I suggest you keep your eyes on me while I am busy torturing you so you understand that my pleasure is the only pleasure that is important in the room. Learn more about my earlier CBT background here:

+ Full toilet training – I am *extremely* regular with a serious fixation on potty humor, so why not profit on it? That and my penchant for physical humiliation couple up into an unforgettable experience for you. Read all about my thoughts on hardsports here:

+ Corporal punishment and judicial caning – my absolute favorite form of CP is a classic rattan cane, with singletailing and Lochgelly tawsing coming a close second. I have a *very* strong caning arm, a wicked aim, and an absurd amount of very serious and very heavy CP implements that I know how to wield with terrifying precision. Listen to me wax poetic about hitting people here:

+ Heavy bondage, all forms – I am a control freak, so honestly, what better way to manifest them within BDSM by controlling your ever movement down to the minutiae? I adore hoods, gags, rope suspension, sleepsacks, chains, straps, cages, locks… If your preferred medium is visual, take a look at my numerous bondage-extensive videos here:

+ Heavy sadism, all forms – I believe in servitude through action, and my receiving love language is your complete and total suffering. Show me the extent of your submission by giving yourself wholly to me. I truly delight in tearing you apart. Few things are too cruel (as someone who has gleefully extracted toenails from a willing sub numerous times).

Just a taste, of course. My interests are complex, multifaceted, and contingent on my whims of the day (and let me tell you, I sure do have some whims). Don’t let this brief list scare you off. There’s so much more that can frighten you…

You can find more about about some of my extensive kinky interests here:

And while you’re at it, go ahead and poke around my site. I’m sure you’ll find something that will pique your curiosity. At the very least, you’ll probably want to jerk off to my photos anyway, don’t you, pervert?

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  • Ballbusting
  • Bondage
  • Caning
  • CBT
  • Corporal Punishment
  • Toilet Slavery
  • Watersports
  • Whipping

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