Game Day: Preparing to Meet your Dominatrix

Game Day:  Preparing to Meet your Dominatrix

The author of this blog is Ms Vivian, dallasdomination.com

My previous column helped prospective clients learn how to communicate with a Professional Dominatrix.  In this column I want to address the next steps boys should take and how to interact with a professional.

Once you have your appointment set and deposit placed, you must continue to follow instructions.  In My case, I will have a brief conversation that I will lead.  (I only talk once I have received payment because there are so many wankers that just want to waste My time.)  Boys are on a short lease and I do not do a lot of hand holding.

Boys will want to review the website and look at notes that they might have taken when dealing with their Dominatrix.  In most instances, boys will need to text or call the day before to confirm the appointment.  I want to be sure a boy is focused on the appointment and nothing has come up.  I realize emergencies happen, but they should be rare.  I am not big on rescheduling because I am busy.

Boys should have briefly communicated to Me about their preferences and limits. These will be reviewed in the introductory interview but be sure you have not left anything out.  Likewise, boys must make Me aware of any physical or health related concerns.  I am a Dominatrix, not a mind reader.

Boys can not expect to change what has been discussed.  Perhaps, a session can be extended, but often that cannot occur.  I also do not typically add activities that have not been discussed and certainly not paid for and never ask for sexual activities.

I want boys to have abstained for two days.  It enhances the experience and is a nice sign of respect for Me.  Don’t think I will not know.  I do this for a living.

I cannot stress this next one enough:  Be clean—everywhere.  If pegging has been discussed, you should take proper steps to have a clean poop chute. Leave off wearing any cologne; this is not a date but you should treat this like a job interview and be well-groomed.

I suggest boys arrive in the area 30 to 45 minutes early.  It gives them time to find a restroom and relax a bit and not have to worry about traffic.  I also do not want boys talking on the phone or listening to music.  I believe when they come to see Me that they should be getting their mind ready and getting used to the quiet.  Arriving for your appointment on time means just that, on time. Do not approach even a minute early, nor should you be running a few minutes late.  It is not respectful.  I am a stickler for punctuality.

When boys enter, they should immediately produce their tribute, pleasantly, in a card. Often, good clients have a gift card or an accompanying present or product for Me.  I take no issue with gratuity being presented at the end, but the tribute must be provided in full.  Cash is common, but some Professionals accept various electronic methods.

Once you are in the presence of the Dominatrix it should be real easy, listen and heed Her instructions and realize that when in the presence of a Professional Dominatrix you are not equals.

Ms Vivian is a petite badass and ChairWoman of Dallas Domination.  She is a professional dominatrix based in Dallas, Texas.  Ms Vivian makes available a range of in-person, video, and custom clip services.  She prides herself on making boys better.  Are you worthy?  See www.dallasdomination.com.  Dallas Domination only provides CFnm dramatic, non-sexual domination.

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